madea, and naruto?

Okay so its been forever and a day since my last post and I don't really know who reads this but eh its available for anyone that wants to…anywayss okay yeah about the title, yeah kinda weird huh? Theres totally an explanation for it I swear =] but firstttt so I was thinking, wat the hell is a blog used for? And then as I started reading random ppl's blog they are kinda weird and they are just out there sorta being random, and that's not to say that my blog is any less random, I just didn't really want to write about myself, I wanted to write about lessons that I learned throughout my life, to hopefully instill some sort of knowledge to you, my reader =] (if in fact anyone does read this)

Okay so back to todays topic….drumroll pleaseeee…..its….forgiveness J….yeah so why is my title "madea, and naruto?" you may ask…well stop asking! I already said that there was a good explanation…now back to the point.

A couple of weeks ago I was watching madea goes to jail, and she began to talk about forgiveness, and how its not for the other person, but its for yourself. this is was initially sparked my forgivness mentality. After madea I was watching naruto (totally lame I know but bare with me here) and in the cartoon there was this lil kid, and to make a long story short he totally forgave this woman for killing his whole family many years earlier

Now after I absorbed these 2 different things I came up with my own views on forgiveness. One, madea was right, forgiveness is for YOURSELF, not for the other person. If you let your anger bottle up and fester it only damages you and no one else, the person whom this anger is for is out there, living his or her life; and as harsh as it sounds, probably isnt thinking about you. So why waste the time and effort and even anger over something that just isnt worth it. Next some people may argue that whatever the person did is just plain unforgiveable and they shall never receive your forgiveness. Well again it isnt for them its for you, and just remember nothing is unforgiveable. My naruto story taught me that there are no bad people out there, just bad choices…don't perpetuate the cycle of bad choices and choose not to forgive this said person. That child forgave wat some would believe is unforgiveable, but he looked past the actions and looked into the person. He was able to see wat others usually cant and he forgave this woman. now im not saying go on a forgiveness spree, but take it one by one. little by little you should begin to look at the people that wronged you and forgive them. you dont have to tell them or anything because this is all for you. after you have begun to do this you will see feel a lighter heart. and positive attitudes never heart anyone.

soo why not forgive?